Did you know most people have largely homogenous professional networks? For example, a report from the Kapor Center for Social Impact states that 75% of white people don’t have any people of color in their social network.
Homogeneous networks form because of the way we network. “Left to our own devices…we produce networks that are ‘just like me,’ convenience networks,” says Herminia Ibarra, a professor of organizational behavior at the London Business School.
This makes sense because common interests tend to fuel networks. Let’s face it, we meet new people because of our shared hobbies or other interests. While I was working as vice president of engineering at Adobe, I joined the knitting club in our San Francisco office. Meeting over lunch on Wednesdays, we got to know each other while knitting baby blankets and hats for a local nonprofit. I loved it. But guess how many male colleagues I met via the knitting group? Zero. Sure, there are men who enjoy knitting, but none joined our group.
Building a professional network across lines of difference can prove difficult, especially when it involves getting outside our comfort zone. Outside of work, men are more likely to hang out with their male coworkers, perhaps grabbing a beer after work, playing poker or a round of golf, or going to a ball game together. By contrast, women tend to spend time with non-work friends outside of the office, such as book club members, fellow volunteers for a nonprofit, members of a religious organization, or, if we have kids, other parents from playgroups and school. For women who handle the lion’s share of housework and childcare, networking can be extra challenging. Home responsibilities can make it tough to pull off attending evening events or out-of-town conferences.
The result is that men network with men, women with women. Engineers network with other engineers, and marketers with other marketers. We want people who understand us, and instinctively know that people who are similar to us are likely to relate to our challenges and triumphs. It’s human nature.
Unfortunately, “just like me” networks can have a negative impact on creating diverse, inclusive workplaces. When it comes time to recruit for open roles and other opportunities, people naturally look to folks who are part of their professional networks, because they know and trust them. But when those networks are homogenous, this translates to favoring and advocating for folks like themselves. Depending on referrals is standard, and if those referrals come from a homogeneous network, it results in just hiring more homogeneity.
There’s an adage I love: Build your network before you need it. As software engineer Samantha Geitz shared on Twitter: “You have to build a network for diversity. This takes YEARS… I’ll tell you how you can start today. Follow 10 people on Twitter who aren’t white dudes. Chat with them every so often. Do it without an agenda.”
All of this begs the question: How will you start building a more diverse network? For ideas on how to do so, check out my book, Better Allies: Everyday Actions to Create Inclusive, Engaging Workplaces, and read this article.